At a recent inclusive playdate, Dili grinned as he bounced on the trampoline beside a new friend, completely at ease. The moment felt effortless, but for his mom, Sulani, it represented a vision realized: belonging without barriers.
“Everyone needs communities where we can be truly ourselves,” Sulani says. “That’s where we find safety, connection, and self-acceptance.” Most spaces are built around the “typical” way of thinking and being, and neurodivergent people (Autistic, ADHD, OCD, etc.) are expected to adapt. But when people step into spaces that are designed with all brains and bodies in mind, something powerful happens: inclusion becomes a shared experience, not an accommodation.
That’s why Sulani volunteers with CAYR Connections, helping build a neuro-affirming community where every brain belongs. The Oak Park nonprofit creates environments where neurodivergent people and their families experience genuine inclusion. Through partnerships with the PlayLab Foundation, the Oak Park Public Library, and the Chicago Public Library, CAYR hosts sensory-friendly playdates, family events, and learning opportunities that embrace every kind of brain. The Chicago Neurodiverse Social Club extends that vision by hosting community events led by neurodivergent adults, for neurodivergent adults.
Sulani now serves as chair of CAYR’s School Advisory Board, helping launch a neuro-inclusive summer program and K–5 microschool designed around children’s strengths, interests, and natural curiosity.
Your donations support more programs where kids can be themselves, more spaces where adults find connection, and more families who finally feel seen. Visit www.cayrconnections.org to help build belonging—one connection at a time.
CAYR Connections
CAYR Connections, an Oak Park nonprofit, envisions a future where all brains belong. CAYR stands for “Come As You Are,” and our mission is to build inclusive spaces that honor neurodiversity (the natural variation of human brains). Our programs for neurodivergent children and their families – including our upcoming microschool and summer program – provide opportunities for education, connection, and advocacy. Our social club for neurodivergent adults and community outreach programs help create lasting networks of support and understanding. Your donations make this possible and help us expand our reach.
Join us in creating a more inclusive world at www.cayrconnections.org.
