This is a response to John Hubbuch’s Speaking of tragedies …[Viewpoints, Sept. 14]. As a teacher, I have taught many Annas and Beths. You must know that real life is not quite as predictable as your article made it sound. My colleagues and I have worked with many Beths. We have spent hours helping them learn and get on track. We have been partners with their families and daycare providers in giving them ideas for ways to help extend learning in everyday experiences.
I am here to tell you that many of the Beths I had the opportunity to teach did well in school. They made it to the top groups academically. They did participate in many co-curricular activities. They did graduate from four-year colleges. They are doing very well in their adult lives.
I will also tell you that no one should just assume that the Annas of this world are headed for instant success. As a mother, I know of many Annas who are not doing so well now. But it would have been a great shock to their parents if they could have looked into the future when their children were young.
This is what I would say to all your readers: Life is what you make of it. Please try to help your child enjoy learning. Find out what your child is interested in and do everything possible to help your child learn and make good choices.
Gloria Engstrom
Oak Park
