Harvey Finkelstein, 71, of Oak Park, died on Sunday, Aug. 11, 2024. A graveside service was held with family and friends on Aug. 14 at Waldheim Jewish Cemetery in Forest Park. A memorial service in celebration of his life will be held for Harvey on Saturday, Sept. 7, at 4 p.m. at First Baptist Church of Oak Park, Oak Park Avenue and Ontario Street, where he was a longtime member. Everyone is invited to attend.
Born on April 19, 1953, the son of Nathan Finkelstein and Leona Rubinoff, Harvey was easily recognized and known by many in the Oak Park community; he was featured in Wednesday Journal back in 2013, as he regularly traversed Oak Park, cheering many folks with his friendliness, and holding part-time jobs with local businesses and organizations. He was a resident for many years through Neighborhood Services, participated in Oak-Leyden Developmental Services, and most recently was at the Berkeley Nursing and Rehabilitation Center.
Those who best knew Harvey knew him to be a good man, loved him for his unique self, his winsome and giving personality, his proud independence, and were inspired by his continual resilience in spite of facing a great many hardships in his life. Numerous professionals who interacted with him became longtime personal friends.
“Words to describe Harvey are not enough,” said Julie Vincent. “He was an experience, and I am grateful that I was able to experience his magic for almost 30 years. In an often unfair world, Harvey was the most authentic and generous spirit I have ever known. His resiliency and kindness transcended his challenges, and the gift of his friendship forever changed my life.”
“Harvey was one of a kind, said Tobias Kaemmerer. “In our countless shared adventures, he taught me much of what I know about generosity, resilience, creating community, and celebrating life. Our friendship had — and will continue to have — a profound impact on my life.”
“A friend of 25 years, Harvey always amazed me by his upbeat attitude and energy,” recalled Nancy Lee. “When he became not able to take his walks in the community, he used the phone to great effect in staying connected with folks. Frequent calls from him to his friends opened with his uplifting ‘How are you!” evoking the receiver’s smile for nurturing the bond of how he valued and loved you. He always closed with ‘Have a good day!’ even when he himself might be going through a very hard time. I am grateful to Harvey for his brotherly caring for me.”
Harvey is survived by his sister, Abra Finkelstein, of Chicago, and Ron Howard, of Buffalo Grove, as well as a niece and a nephew.