Calvary pastor and wife adopt four Ethiopian children

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By Tom Holmes

Contributing Reporter / Religion Blogger

Todd Wilson laughed, thinking of when he comes home from work at 6 p.m. and walks into "organized chaos with seven kids — three biological and four adopted — buzzing around."

Todd and Katie Wilson first felt the call to adopt between 1998 and 2000 when they lived in Minneapolis. Newly graduated from Wheaton College, Katie was teaching junior high English and Todd was working with college students in a Twin Cities congregation.

"In Minneapolis we were at a church where they had a lot of adoptions," Katie explained. "That's when it really kind of stirred our hearts for adoption, but it didn't feel like the right time. We were moving a lot and we did not have the money to do it."

The Wilsons moved often during the next seven years, including a sojourn in Cambridge, England, where Todd was working on a Ph.D. in New Testament studies. After returning to the States in 2005 and giving birth to their third child, Katie didn't want to be pregnant any more, but she still felt the urge to do more mothering. At the same time, she felt pulled in the direction of a career in interior design. She had started working on a degree at the Harrington College of Design and was loving it.

"I would love to do art history or design on the side," she confessed, "and I still feel pulled by other desires and aspirations, but adoption weighed more heavily on my heart and that won out. We just felt the need to adopt. I can go back to design some day."

A series of experiences confirmed that the dream of adopting was, in fact, what they should pursue, so they began the process of adopting two children from an orphanage in Ethiopia.

One of those experiences was Todd receiving the call to be senior pastor of Calvary Memorial Church on Lake Street. He remembered Googling Calvary and thinking, "There are African Americans at the church. We're going to be a biracial family soon and we live in lily-white Wheaton." The "suburban-urban" vibe of Oak Park reminded the couple of Cambridge.

"It took a long time to finally get our children," Todd said. "There are always setbacks, paperwork to fill out and immigration hassles. We had said on our application that we preferred babies, but that is what most adopting parents want, so not many are available right away."

In the spring of 2009 Katie received a phone call from Ethiopia saying that not only did the orphanage have two babies for them, but they were twin boys. The Wilsons flew to Addis Ababa and brought home to Oak Park the 6-month-old brothers whom they named Addis Andrew and Rager Ababa.

Holding the children she'd been praying for and working toward for the first time was an "overwhelming experience," Katie said.

"When they first brought the twins out to us," Todd recalled, "I had the same feeling I had in the delivery room when our three biological children were born, the same feeling of affection and attachment."

There was no turning back after that. This spring, Todd and Katie increased their family when they brought back from Ethiopia 8-year-old Titus and his 6-year-old half-sister Marta Kate.

When Katie's father heard that his daughter and son-in-law were going to adopt again and go from five children to seven, he declared, "That's not a large family. That's a calling."

Indeed, Katie acknowledged that adoption presents special challenges, especially when older children are adopted. "Like now during this time of transition it takes a long time for [Titus and Marta Kate] to settle in. There are lots of issues to work through, like missing home and asking, 'Are these people really going to love forever?' So there is acting out and testing of boundaries."

"That's why I think it was gracious of the Lord to do some of the things he did [which confirmed their course]," she said. "I wrote them all down, so when there are those times of 'oh dear,' I go back and read them and say, 'This is what he has for us.'"

Todd admitted that living with seven kids can get intense but added that the experience has broadened what he calls the "band width" of his emotions.

"The pains and the challenges are deeper," he said, "but the joys are higher. Our family has learned to live with the 'organized chaos.'"

Katie added that their friends, church and family have been a big help in many ways like raising the $35,000 necessary to bring each pair of children to the U.S.

"Besides," Todd said, "the need is so great. There are 4.7 million orphans in Ethiopia alone and 147 million globally."

When asked if they would consider adopting even more children, Todd and Katie looked at each other, smiled and said, "Yes."

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Goshen Perry from usa  

Posted: March 24th, 2016 5:00 PM

I am Goshen Perry by name i want to say a big thanks to the St Anthonio Orphanage home for making my dreams come true. I and my wife have been married for long now, but we are unable to have a child because of some health issues. And we decided to adopt. We have been hearing that the process to adopt a child is a very difficult one so since then going through the process has really been our fear. but we got in contact with someone who adopted from St Anthonio Orphanage she told us that the process in St Anthonio is very easy. so i decided to contact St Anthonio Orphanage, and behold the process was so easy and in just one week i got the child and now i am a happy man because the child is finally with me. So please i want you all to help me say a big thanks to St Anthonio Orphanage for their good heart. In case you want to also adopt a child, and you don't want to go through any stress i recommend you to St Anthonio Orphanage Home. Their email is (, and their phone number is +1 (508) 686-7018

Typical Oak Parker from Oak Park  

Posted: April 7th, 2014 10:11 AM

There are far too many sticks on the trampoline for a safe trampolining experience. Also, you should only allow one child at a time, preferably while wearing a helmet. If there is not an ordinance forbidding this type of unsafe activity, there ought to be!


Posted: April 7th, 2014 9:46 AM

What a beautiful article on a beautiful family. The Wilson's are some of the best parents I know. They make important things important: like discipline, love, reading, and having fun. While allowing other things find their place next in line.

Kristen S  

Posted: February 26th, 2014 9:42 PM

Wilsons, thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us and encouraging us with your heart to bless and your willingness to open your heart and be changed - for the better, clearly! May your example of stepping out in faith inspire us to let go of our comforts and the entitlements we claim in our lives to embrace the needs of others. God bless!

Dave Coulter  

Posted: June 18th, 2013 6:29 PM

Tough audience : /

Dan Haley from Wednesday Journal Wednesday Journal Employee

Posted: June 18th, 2013 2:24 PM

Dave, I had the same reaction. My goodness. To read this story and look at these pictures and your only response is to throw darts because a kid climbed on the sink! I think they missed the point.

Dave Coulter  

Posted: June 18th, 2013 1:41 PM

Out of 11 comments only 4 found something nice to write about these folks? Talk about wringing the joy out of the story! Good luck as this family negotiates their "organized chaos"

Bike safety  

Posted: June 18th, 2013 12:37 PM

And no helmets either.


Posted: June 17th, 2013 3:40 PM

In a printed photo in the newspaper why is a child allowed to stand on the bath room sink? Some one needs to tell the child not to do that. Am I the only one that thinks the child could be in danger?


Posted: June 14th, 2013 2:33 PM

What a beautiful family!!!!


Posted: June 12th, 2013 1:32 PM

I didn't realize this family owned their home. Thanks for the clarification. From the size of that house, it looks like they are probably paying a pretty penny in taxes!


Posted: June 12th, 2013 1:20 PM

What a beautiful family, love you guys.

Bridgett from Oak Park  

Posted: June 12th, 2013 1:12 PM

@Taxpayer, If clergy own their home, then they pay property taxes. A lot don't, because their pay is so low, they can't afford homeownership. What you may be thinking of is a parsonage allowance. Clergy can exclude from their income a rental allowance or the fair rental value of a home that is provided to them as pay for their services. And this deduction affects their personal income taxes, not property taxes.

Jean from Wauconda  

Posted: June 12th, 2013 12:13 PM

To Taxpayer - where did you get the idea that clergy doesn't pay real estate taxes? We pay all kinds of taxes the same as you.


Posted: June 12th, 2013 11:47 AM

In addition to their church and their Lord, this family might also thank the community they live in for our financial support. We pay high taxes to provide public educations for all children in Oak Park. Someone remind me again why clergy don't pay property tax in Oak Park?


Posted: June 12th, 2013 10:58 AM

They are a radiant example of grace and true, unconditional love. Thank you Wilson family!

Evangelical adoptions  

Posted: June 12th, 2013 9:46 AM

It's odd for the WJ to write a piece like this without acknowledging that this is part of a larger trend within the evangelical christian movement. The New York Times had a lengthy piece about this just last week:

Bea from oak park il  

Posted: June 11th, 2013 11:42 PM

I think is great!

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