Transcending reason

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By Tom Holmes

Contributing Reporter / Religion Blogger

Did what happened at Sandy Hook Elementary School put a damper on your holiday celebrations this year?  This is the darkest time of the year to begin with, so what happened in Newtown just seems to make the darkness even more impenetrable.

As I see it, our society gives us three options for dealing with the darkness around us, among us and in us.

The first is escape.  We can create a fantasy land with holiday lights, new outfits, gift wrapped presents under the tree waiting to be opened, tiny tots with their eyes all aglow, beautiful carols sung in candlelight on Christmas Eve. . . .and plenty of alcoholic beverages.  It's like our whole culture tries to transform our homes, churches and main streets into Disney World.  When it's done well and when life is going pretty good for you, the whole configuration can feel very romantic and comforting. 

Reality can be too much to bear sometimes, so for the sake of our mental health it's good to escape it every once in awhile.  Do you remember Lilly Tomlin's character, the bag lady?  The bag lady once said, "You know I'm certifiably crazy.  What happened was that I decided that reality was the main cause of stress, so I checked out of reality.  And you know, life has been a lot better ever since."

The second option is to try to overwhelm the darkness with light in the form of increased knowledge, progressive politics and technology.  Following the shootings in Newtown almost everyone was asking, "Why?"  What caused this young man to do such a terrible thing?  Was it a mental health issue?  Was it due to bullying?  Do we have too many guns available?" It's an example of this assumption we have that if we can diagnose the problem correctly, then science and innovative minds will come up with a solution, a cure. 

To be sure, science and technological innovation have come up with some amazing inventions which have made our lives much better.  The limits of science to deal with problems like school shootings, however, are revealed in the following joke.  So the doctor tells her patient that the bad news is that he is over medicated.  "The good news," she adds confidently, "is that we have a pill for that."

The third option uses terminology that neither science nor the entertainment industry understand, because it comes out of a view of reality which transcends reason and is counterintuitive to a society focused on being happy.  It is an option which is communicated best in stories and poetry and is expressed in concepts like evil, grace and self-denying love.  

And one of the narratives which best expresses this third option is the biblical story of the birth of Jesus.  Read it from Joseph's point of view.  His fiancé gets pregnant before they get married, and he knows for sure he's not the father.  All he has to go on is talk of angels from Mary and a dream he has in the middle of the night.  Mary gives birth in what amounts to a homeless shelter.  The young family has to flee to Egypt to escape Herod's soldiers who massacre children with swords instead of assault rifles.

This third option doesn't try to escape "reality" but faces it head on.  Neither does it arrogantly assume that mortals are wise enough to invent the "pill" which will cure all of society's problems.  It names the problem with the term evil but then tells a story in which God puts himself in a situation in which evil seems to triumph. 

Science doesn't have a vocabulary to adequately explain the behavior of Adam Lanza, the shooter, on the one hand or the teachers who tried to protect their students on the other.  Mature religion does.  Mature religion can name unseen forces which impact our lives without pretending to be able to understand or control them. 

Hollywood tends to assign the motivation for good and bad behavior to our emotions, to a spirituality of how I feel at the moment.  If it ever made a movie of what happened in Newtown, Tinsel Town would portray Adam Lanza as angry or depressed and the teachers as caring and giving. 

All of that may be true, but good preachers don't confine themselves to rummaging around in their congregants' feelings every Sunday or Shabat.  They understand that love, as a religious term, is as much a matter of the will as of the emotions.  It is a verb connoting action more than a noun describing how we happen to feel.  When you love your neighbors, in the biblical sense of the word, you do what's best for them. . .even when you don't like them. 

There is a place for escape and fantasy in our lives.  Science and technology have the potential to bless us if we understand their limitations. 

But, religion has some important contributions to make regarding the discussion about what happened in Newtown. . . .and Columbine and Rwanda and in Nazi death camps.  First, it presents a view of the world which acknowledges the reality of darkness.  Second it provides a language which talks about that reality in ways which an empirical approach cannot give us.  It's not that terms like evil or grace are irrational.  Rather that kind of language is trans-rational.

And third, neither escapes from reality nor science and technology are able to produce the kind of love those teachers at Sandy Hook showed for their children.  

"Merry Christmas" is not a phrase you'll find in the Bible.  "The peace which passes understanding" is.  This Christmas, especially THIS Christmas, let us allow the third option to show us where to go from here.

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Marnie Rourke from Oak Park  

Posted: December 22nd, 2012 11:13 AM

"The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light." Our job when others walk in the dark places is not to solve the problem, It is to be their companions as they walk in the dark. It is not to shine light that casts away the darkness. It is to shine light at their feet so they can choose what step next will bring them to the light. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Yet there are turns in the tunnel that block the the light.and when you make those turns you will see a great light!

Dee  

Posted: December 21st, 2012 3:09 PM

John, some philosophers over the years have imagined God as the Watchmaker. She allowed life to form and evolve (made the watch and wound it up), but leaves the rest to us. That is the challenge of every living creature: to get along with creation in a way that would make Her proud. Humanity has the power to make life a true paradise. The fact that we don't maybe isn't God's fault. Or, perhaps, for reasons we don't understand, each watch is defective -- some much more than others.

John Hubbuch from Oak Park  

Posted: December 21st, 2012 2:17 PM

Any discussion of God's role when addressing evil should always address the question: if God is omnipotent and loving how does he let these things happen? Is his power limited? Is he not loving? A frequent response is that God's ways are mysterious and man cannot understand them.I suspect that for a number grieving Newtown parents that is not very consoling or transcending. People of great faith maybe consoled, but I wonder even as to them.

Dee  

Posted: December 21st, 2012 1:22 PM

Tom, those are great thoughts. Sadly, darkness always seems to have the power. It's a series of David v. Goliath re-matches, and we want David to win, but it doesn't always happen. Often Goliath just kicks butt. I want to add one more recent dark event that you did not mention; one that's not at the top of the list, but is nevertheless important. And that is a local HS Board that hoards money, taken from overtaxed taxpayers, for some far-future plans. Simply robbery disguised as governance.

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